{"id":1349,"date":"2025-02-27T07:53:15","date_gmt":"2025-02-27T13:53:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.jccc.edu\/messenger\/?p=1349"},"modified":"2025-02-27T07:53:15","modified_gmt":"2025-02-27T13:53:15","slug":"how-to-college-the-confidence-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.jccc.edu\/messenger\/2025\/02\/27\/how-to-college-the-confidence-edition\/","title":{"rendered":"How to College: The Confidence Edition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Inspiration to Fake It Till You Become It<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We&#8217;ve all experienced moments when we feel uncertain. This can happen in large crowds, social events, or when meeting new people. After reading this article, you&#8217;ll learn how to &#8220;fake it till you make it,&#8221; and even better, how to &#8220;fake it till you become it.&#8221; Below are some articles that explain the &#8220;fake-it-till-you-make-it&#8221; method, as channeling your inner confidence can lead you to your next big success.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.ted.com\/fake-it-til-you-become-it-amy-cuddys-power-poses-visualized\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Fake it \u2019til you become it: Amy Cuddy\u2019s power poses\u2026 visualized | TED Blog<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologs.com\/the-psychology-of-fake-it-till-you-make-it\/#:~:text=Conclusion,and%20becoming%20real%2C%20lasting%20change.&amp;text=Bandura%2C%20A.,Gotham%20Books.&amp;text=Cooper%2C%20J.,SAGE%20Publications.&amp;text=org\/10.1177\/001872675400700202-,Festinger%2C%20L.,Stanford%20University%20Press.\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Psychology of &#8220;Fake it Till you Make it&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">One of my favorite methods for boosting confidence is changing your mindset. It may sound simple, but there are many ways to illustrate this concept. Before entering any situation where I feel self-doubt, I tell myself I\u2019m Paris Hilton. While this may seem odd to some, everyone has their own special person who inspires them when it comes to confidence\u2014just like you do. Here are some additional tips to help you shift your confidence mindset before any event, along with some life advice from Paris!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.positiveperformancetraining.com\/blog\/the-mindset-of-confidence\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Mindset of Confidence<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/entertainment\/taylor-swift-lyrics-about-self-worth\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Taylor Swift Lyrics About Self-Worth\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tatler.com\/gallery\/best-paris-hilton-quotes\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">13 Paris Hilton Quotes to Live By\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Body language plays a crucial role in projecting confidence and can significantly influence how you feel as well. Even without realizing it, your body language may reveal how confident you truly are in a given moment. Practicing confident body language can help your mind and body learn to embody that confidence. Remember, confidence is one of the best attributes you can wear. Here are some tips to enhance your body language and facial expressions, because who wouldn\u2019t want to exude confidence and command a room?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.scienceofpeople.com\/body-language-examples\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">23 Essential Body Language Examples and Their Meanings<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@speakersinstitutesm\/15-ways-to-fake-it-till-you-make-it-how-to-project-confidence-even-if-you-dont-feel-it-a7f3787415d\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">15 Ways to Fake It Till You Make It (How To Project Confidence Even If You Don\u2019t Feel It) | by Speakers Institute | Medium<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/clare-richardson-reluxe-style-9-5\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">9-5: How Celebrity Fashion Stylist Clare Richardson Dresses for Ease and Confidence<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are countless ways to &#8220;fake it till you make it.&#8221; What works for one person may not work for another, so it&#8217;s essential to discover what techniques resonate with you personally. Regardless of where you are in your journey, you will experience both ups and downs. However, consistently working on your self-assurance can help train your mind to become the best version of yourself. Here are some additional tips and quotes to help you channel your inner confidence, and embrace your role to become the best you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/33Al1V75QVfzGy49vByHGu\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">WTF Is Confidence? (ft. Ashtin) &#8211; Hot Mess with Alix Earle | Podcast on Spotify<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.glamourmagazine.co.uk\/article\/selena-gomez-rare-awaken-confidence-interview-2024\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Selena Gomez Talks Honestly About Her Journey With Confidence And The Inspiration Behind Her Newest Scent From Rare | Glamour UK<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8211; Adi Vesey<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Channeling Confidence: Movies and Music to Help You Fake It Till You Make It in College<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Let&#8217;s be honest, getting through college is a mindset. You have to fake it till you make it. Walking into a room having a certain movie character or song in your head that gets you pumped up and is an amazing way to feel confident. Here are some movies and songs to listen to if you want to trick people into thinking you have it all together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Wanna be an academic weapon? Watch <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0454921\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Pursuit of Happyness<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, a movie about a father who ends up homeless and works his way to the top. This movie will get students who are experiencing burnout in the mindset to work hard to get to where they want to be in life. Good grades aren&#8217;t just given to you, so if you need a bit of an extra nudge to open your textbooks, watch this movie.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Maybe you want people to perceive you as a girl boss? Walk through JCCC channeling your inner Elle Woods. She is the main character from the movie <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0250494\/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Legally Blonde<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> who knows her worth and never quits till she gets what she wants.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If you are the type of person with music on 24\/7, listen to songs that get you in the right mood to walk into the room like you own the place. If you need more song ideas to add to your pump-up playlist, try the American classic &#8220;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=btPJPFnesV4\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Eye of the Tiger<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8221; by Survivor. If you are more into rap, try \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=PsO6ZnUZI0g\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Stronger<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d by Kanye West or \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=RubBzkZzpUA\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Started at the Bottom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d by Drake. If you&#8217;re into more girly pop music, try \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=xdaKBAuO8zg\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Femininomenon<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d by Chappell Roan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8211; Katie Dors<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Software to Help You Get More Confident<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As students navigating through a difficult environment such as college, we often find ourselves overwhelmed and confused, so here&#8217;s a few tools to help cut through these feelings:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.grammarly.com\/a\/students?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=19954431795&amp;utm_content=654633191885&amp;utm_term=mla%20format%20generator&amp;target=&amp;targetid=aud-839635146150:kwd-5143810254&amp;adgroup=148789815740&amp;device=c&amp;matchtype=b&amp;placement=&amp;network=g&amp;extension=&amp;clickid=Cj0KCQjw0Oq2BhCCARIsAA5hubUygGwjb28gdTQz8h6qPRH6rSZAOUpntkXpxNP-sqoVZzvbHk2slewaAmByEALw_wcB&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADkCrf9DrO5kNAtbJ_gBxdsElxZKU&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw0Oq2BhCCARIsAA5hubUygGwjb28gdTQz8h6qPRH6rSZAOUpntkXpxNP-sqoVZzvbHk2slewaAmByEALw_wcB&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Grammarly<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: If you&#8217;re a student who somehow doesn&#8217;t know what this is, your life is going to be changed. Grammarly is an extension to your browser that automatically goes through your essays, and as you type, will automatically correct spelling, punctuation, and verbage all in one place.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.notion.com\/desktop\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Notion<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Notion is a highly customizable note taking app on your phone or computer. It has a very accessible interface that allows you to layout your notes any way you need.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.headspace.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Headspace<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Another app but for your health! This app has a blend of tips and tricks, while also offering guided meditation and breathing exercises to manage a student&#8217;s well-being\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It\u2019s becoming easier and easier\u00a0 to find a tool that works for you. These are just a few basics to keep us in check as we continue to navigate through the semester.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Gunnar Galloway<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inspiration to Fake It Till You Become It We&#8217;ve all experienced moments when we feel uncertain. This can happen in large crowds, social events, or when meeting new people. 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