Been thinking of boiling my course policies down to something short and clear. Something like the best selling book, The No Asshole Rule (written by Stanford business prof Robert Sutton – and winner of the 2007 Quill award for best business book – based on his popular essay written for the Harvard Review). I thought it was brilliant and funny. (buy here at amazon – and/or read additional review of text).
He makes a great case for using the A word, but not sure I can get by with it. But does jerkwad have the same impact? Isn’t D-bag even more offensive and probably sexist?
If 3 to 4% of the population is sociopath (as scientists/psychologists argue) then we can’t doubt jerkwads exist. Most of them aren’t clinically anti-social so the percent of jerkwads is way more than 5%. In college it has a lot to do with maturity – and/or lack of it. Learning to think of those other than oneself is a big step – and considering the prefrontal cortex doesn’t finish developing until the mid-20’s – and that’s necessary to see the consequences of actions.
Is one of the roles of / goals of/ objectives of college to recognize and avoid jerkish behavior? Should it be?
I say yes. It is addressed in comp student learning objectives as: tone, audience awareness, peer work and collaboration and effective communication. When one is a jerkwad – that is the only message received by one’s audience. Any other intention is rendered moot.
To that effect, rules about use of cell phones, sleeping in class, tardiness and all other passive aggressive and disruptive behavior should be consistently applied….but…
It gets wrapped up in power or control, doesn’t it.
questions for classes
- What behaviors in class qualify as jerkwadish? Why? How do the affect the class?
- would it be better or worse to use the word *ssh*l*
- Does every class have jerkwads? What percent of the school population in general are jerkwads?
- What about teachers? What behavior have you seen in instructors that qualifies as jerkwadish?
- Is it merely manners? Are manners related or not and how or why?
Is there any truth to this graph?
http://www.smbc-comics.com/comics/20110816.gif
Of course if they are late because they brought ME coffee-that’s OK.
Hmm. That would warm my heart. I probably wouldn’t drink it though. Reminds me too much of bad experience a colleague had. I’d assume the best, though. I just wouldn’t drink it.